mostly pictures...

Picasa pictures

2012-01-07T11:46:00.000-08:00

I've been sharing pictures mostly via e-mail and facebook, but I'll try to remember to post picasa links here when I update! Here's Christmas!

Christmas 2011!

Julie and Leigh Leigh come to town

2011-06-14T12:19:00.000-07:00

A lovely trip to graceland, and lots of fun with dry-erase markers!

Aunt Julie spent a lot of time with little Mia-

And I think Mia enjoyed the attention.

Thanks to Julie's persistence, we finally made it here!

The white living room was so clean. I was a little stressed thinking about how crumbs and juice (and greasy little fingers) might affect it. Wasn't there a toddler here?

Lisa Marie's fave chair. In the jungle room, no less.

Priscilla's wedding dress.

awesome jump suit.

Bye bye Graceland! Thanks for taking us, mama!

Pictures with my friend, Hillary!

2011-06-04T18:06:00.001-07:00

A preview, here. In honor of our TENTH anniversary last Thursday. Lots to be thankful for....

http://www.jevoisphotography.com/blog/my-friends-family-portrait/

Okay, okay....

2011-05-02T10:52:00.000-07:00

So these are mostly mobile uploads, but I felt like sharing. It makes me feel like less of a slacker.

Fletcher completely obsessed with the swing.

wearing the slip- don't want to get the pretty easter dress dirty!

Hangin' with my cousins. I have lots of cousins.

I just love Fletch's hair here.

Gina is so good about taking the group photos! I love having them.

Use the Picasa Link-

2011-01-11T19:38:00.000-08:00

We have finally uploaded some pictures from Christmas. I have been sharing pictures with my family through our picasa website and facebook, mostly, so I think we'll be doing less blogging as we go. The link to the left "way too many family pics" has the latest installment: Dec 2010/ Jan 2011. If you check there periodically, you should find new things.

Halloween

2010-11-13T18:05:00.001-08:00

Our little fireman was excited about saying "trick or treat" and "thank you" in order to "get lots of candy". When the time came though, he was a bit shy...

But still managed to snag plenty of candy-

The neighborhood welcomed the little ones.

And someone who will remain unnamed, wasn't able to wait until after trick-or-treating

to eat some chocolate.

We have smiles!

2010-11-13T17:59:00.000-08:00

Brian and I are speaking in silly voices these days- Mia gives us some big smiles. Mostly when she's on the changing table...

I get behind...

2010-11-12T09:10:00.000-08:00

...when I have 2 kids. It may take 8 weeks to upload pictures.

The tugboat honked at Fletch when he waved.

I think this cookie made up his dinner this particular evening.

Baby Mia loves the sling-

Pretty Memphis sunset

Click on "way too many family pics" to the right for some more updated photos, including a smiling baby girl! I can't figure out how to get more than 4 pictures from Picasa to the blog, so that's why she hasn't made an appearance in this post...

Last Wednesday.....

2010-09-22T11:54:00.000-07:00

....we went from this....
To this! Welcome Baby Mia!

Hello Big Brother Fletch!

Fletcher is so glad to have you here, too! (Here he is eating banana bread, that he calls juicerator bread. Don't ask us why.)

Mia getting her first bath with her dad and sort-of interested brother-

And for my first trick, ocasionally I can find my thumb!

Thanks to everyone for the support, calls, and visits! More pictures to come...

Aftermath

2010-08-03T10:51:00.000-07:00

-what's left on the floor after a long day of playing indoors and errand running. FYI, the hammer is used mostly to hit me in the knee, not for much pretend construction projects. Or maybe a little bit of both. It does have a funny sound effect with impact, I must say. Life is funny sometimes, living with a 2-year-old boy. It's sad to think we'll forget about some of these toys that we see so often these days.

Speaking of cheese

2010-07-15T09:08:00.000-07:00

I just found this picture in my e-mail sent folder, from our family trip to the beach, back in May. It is one of my favorite pictures of Fletch. He's really getting the hang of smiling for the camera!

One of the best memories of this trip- he was so tuckered out from all of the sun, sand and water, that we had to wake him up EVERY morning and after EVERY nap, so we could get out and do stuff! I love that he played so hard and slept so hard... Come to think of it, I think I had to wake Brian up after all of his naps too! Come on people, vacation isn't just for sleeping!

Cheese.

2010-07-06T06:50:00.000-07:00

We "cheese" now, when we see the camera phone aimed at us. Here, we're reading "Puff the Magic Dragon" with the accompanying CD. Fletch calls it Elmo Dragon. I have no idea why. We have quite the little chatter-box on our hands these days!

A turnaround trip...

2010-06-29T10:51:00.000-07:00

I am now shamelessly stealing pictures off of Gina's blog. Fletch got to see his cousins this weekend, thanks to Chief and Frannie meeting us in Tupelo to take him to the festivities. I think he definetly thought it was worth the car-time:

Someone looks ready to launch off the couch here. Wonder who that could be?
Thanks, Brocatos for making this possible. (and also making my clean(er) closets possible.) We were sad to miss seeing Anna Frances at her first birthday party- Happy Birthday little one!

the rest of the story?

2010-04-18T12:56:00.001-07:00

I think we've picked out the main idea here. This is Fletch's adaptation of 5 Little Monkeys.

The "sooooo" in between pages is key to the story. It's my favorite part- somehow it's in ALL of his books, particularly when Fletch is "reading" them. (by the way, B is driving- I am filming. No safety was risked in the making of this video.)

A Greystone Easter...

2010-04-09T12:53:00.000-07:00

The only person who seems to be taking pictures around here is Gina! When did I get so lazy? And can you believe the thighs on this guy?Thanks for taking this picture, G. As most Easter photos of young children are, it was not easy to organize, nor fun for the kiddos. But it turned out really well! And we have you to thank...Happy Easter!

Rhythm and Tone

2010-03-31T11:18:00.001-07:00

What's missing from this little number? (hint: see title.) I will forgive him though, since he's so cute. I have watched this at least 20 times. And if you're concerned about his hair, I suggest you attempt trimming it, and your concern will then be for your safety and for less screaming. Seriously, we may have a professional try to cut it again this weekend- that seems to be the best bet (equally upsetting to Fletch, but a much better quality cut than the mom/dad special.) These little people are so opinionated about the darndest things!

Rooster Spacket

2010-03-27T13:48:00.000-07:00

If only you could have seen how obsessed Fletch was with the Easter bunny. He kept trying to sneak in on other children's pictures. Another fun fact, there is already a chocolate residue on his face- he found out very early that there were "treasures" inside the eggs. I guess I never realized how easter clothes and chocolate make a bad combination. Fletch also make sure he had his "rooster spacket" in each picture with the bunny. Also, he didn't ever want to talk to the bunny- he just liked to back in next to him and pose for pictures, regardless if we were shooting at the moment. Even if other kids were getting their pictures made with him:

a big one

2010-03-17T10:21:00.000-07:00

Due to Chief's impressive photography skills, this looks much bigger than it actually was. But it IS the first fish he actually helped to reel in. He is still talking about it! Fletch (and I) had a really good time visiting all of his grandparents this weekend. Thanks everyone for visiting with us- we miss our Birmingham family!
- (haircut courtesy of Brian/ Mary haircuts Express, inc.)

Happy 2nd Birthday!

2010-02-13T14:09:00.000-08:00

So, my very talented mother-in-law, some may know her as Frannie, made this amazing cake. Fletch is still talking about it. As a matter of fact, I asked him if he had a tummy ache last night. His reply you ask: "Thomas cake?"

Here's the singing happy Birthday.

Claude brought Fletch this hat. He wears it while pushing his fire-truck. It's cute.

One of his other favorite gifts- the "fi-po". He insists on casting it himself, resulting in very dangerous behavior when fast eddie is around.

Throughout all stages of his life, he seems to prefer the slobber collar look. I just feel that a bib is too baby-ish for this very grown-up 2 year old. Plus he refuses to keep them on. I guess he feels that he is above it as well. Maybe he's trying to make a statement. I do think it's starting to catch on in his classroom. Thanks friends, family, and Brocatos, for the birthday wishes, gifts, and for sharing this day with us...

more snow!

2010-02-09T12:25:00.001-08:00

Apologize for the lack of posts here lately- I haven't been feeling 100%. But we did manage to get out and play in the snow a bit. We got about 5 inches Sunday night, and no one knew it was coming- not even the weathermen! It took Fletch a minute- but now he loves stomping around in the stuff. And B is off of work this week- home for the snow days! He has been occupying the little guy while I try every nasal product on the market to deal with my sinus congestion. I think when it comes down to it, good old fashioned sudafed is the only thing that really touches it. Aren't you glad that I shared that.

2010-01-10T07:22:00.000-08:00

My dad sent us a CD of pictures of Fletch over the past couple of years. I think this is one of my favorites. (I'm pretty sure I took it). Also, it's really got me missing the summer time. We haven't stepped foot outside except to get in/out of the car, in weeks! Anyway, a good shot of these guys at Overton Park...

and a happy new year...

2009-12-31T11:20:00.000-08:00

Since Fletch didn't get to come to New York with us, I felt the need to showcase the star of "mostly pictures", in all of his Christmas glory... (taken by tall Brian- thanks!)

He really got the hang of opening gifts- fun for us to watch! And also, cheesing it up.

Thomas was a big deal in 2009. I have a feeling that 2010 won't be very different.

How gross is this chocolate slobber situation?

Merry Belated Christmas!!

Merry Chrismtas from NYC!

2009-12-28T10:46:00.000-08:00

I will just let the pictures speak for themselves. They were taken by Andrew, mostly because our camera was too bulky to be lugging around in such cold weather. What an amazing trip..

This is the view from Brian and Andrew's perspective most of the trip. Foofie and I were definetly the navigators

Is there anything more beautiful than Central Park in the snow? We had a BIG blizzard come through right after we flew in. This is the following day.Grand Central Station is one of my favorite places in New York. Such a huge space, people bustling about, and very "old" feeling. On the Staten Island Ferry. The statue of liberty is behind us (you'll just have to trust me.) One of the only free things to do in NYC, but really fun.

I did spend a considerable amount of time looking through my purse for the hotel key, metro pass, phone, etc. Some things don't change, even when you're on vacation. (PS, this is about 1:30 a.m in the middle of the blizzard.)"top of the rock" We opted for this view since it was so close to our hotel, as compared with the Empire State Building. It is really amazing to see the city from above, especially at night.
My other favorite part of the city. You just can't do this tree justice, by seeing it on SNL.
We promise to come back, big city! Thanks for a beautiful trip.

Fishing Trip

2009-12-05T12:32:00.000-08:00

So this is what I got via chief's iphone camera just now. The men are in Mammoth Springs, Arkansas today. And apparently, no, 22 degrees is not too cold to go fly-fishing. Glad to see they're catching something!

Meet Luke...

2009-11-20T07:54:00.000-08:00

Isn't he handsome?

Luke Edward Harris was born yesterday; 7 lbs, 15 oz. Supposedly he's got huge hands and feet. That's all I know about him so far. (and they say he looks like MY Brian). Actually, I totally see his Dad in this little face- especially the brow. Gina and *tall* Brian are doing great.

Welcome little guy! We can't wait to see you in person!

mostly just pictures

2009-11-08T19:50:00.000-08:00

FYI, going to change the web address to mostlyjustpictures.blogspot.com TODAY! I don't like having our last name up for the entire world wide web to see, even though it is mostly family and friends who visit here. Hope it's not too confusing- there's a link from the old website- I'll keep it up for awhile.

Happy Halloween!

2009-10-31T20:52:00.000-07:00

The first trick-or-treat was a success.

Fletch finally figured out how to carry the pumpkin and put candy into it. While looking outrageously cute in the meantime.

The neighborhood gang is quite intimidating, don't you think?

What a fun time we had!! I wish you could see more of Ce-ce's wings here. They were so adorable.

three guesses....

2009-10-12T16:49:00.000-07:00

Can you guess what we're going to be for halloween this year? A special thank you to my neighbors, the Joneses, for letting us borrow this. You simply must see him crawl around on his hands and knees while "in character." It will make your day.

Mom, Jules, and Zach

2009-10-11T14:32:00.000-07:00

Well shoot. these posts are a bit out of order, and all at once. Oh well!

Julie, Mom and, Zachary drove up for a visit awhile back. Here are a few shots from the weekend...

This is the makeshift playroom (formerly dining room). Anyone want to help us remove those burglar bars?

Zach and Eddie have a love/hate relationship. Mostly love though.

The after- breakfast clean up team.

The only picture in which mama kept her eyes open. Hooray!! Thanks for visiting us- we had fun.

Heber Springs, AR

2009-10-11T14:15:00.000-07:00

Isn't it lovely here? Thanks, Rob and Grace, for inviting us... And for letting us borrow baby PJ's and diapers. We, in true Brocato form, left Fletch's entire bag of stuff in Memphis. Which didn't turn out to be as bad as we thought. We just had to look at "mr. Happy" t-shirt for about 72 hours.

I loved this river cabin- it reminded me of my family's growing up!

Don't you just love the instructional finger, captured in this photo? It's really the only one in which they're all (sort-of) looking at the camera. They are good buddies- these three. All within 6 or so months of each other!

Brian, where's your happy-face t-shirt?

Not a much better snack than leftover pancakes. Fun trip, friends.

Ellie and Hannes

2009-10-08T06:12:00.000-07:00

Have you read Ellie's blog in Tanzania? It is amazing. And she shares some posting with her sister- they are really fun to read; http://ellieandabbie.typepad.com/bright_eyes_blue_eyes . Just thought I would share this fun little find with you, mom, and whoever else is reading this.

Talk about pictures!

2009-10-06T09:33:00.000-07:00

Frances and Gina snuck in a little photo session while Brian and I were out of town (aren't they sneaky?). What an amazing surprise!! They are so beautiful; the only problem now is picking out which ones to buy!

Check out the slideshow here.

And a couple of blog posts with the pictures attached:

Fletcher and

More of Fletcher

(heatherdurhamphotography.com is the website)

And these are just the tip of the iceberg. I've got some big decisions to make. This last head shot of Fletch laughing just steals my heart every time I look at it. I'm pretty sure that one's going to make the cut.

Help!

2009-09-11T09:57:00.001-07:00

Help- I've lost my camera! (or rather, I think Brian has something to do with it). Anyone seen it? I miss it! Could explain the lack of quality pictures around here.
love mary

Blowing kisses and Birmingham trip...

2009-08-24T17:24:00.000-07:00

First, an action shot of Fletcher's latest "trick"-

So the 4 of us made a trip to Birmingham for Gina's baby shower and Mama Jo's 85th Birthday party! Gina, I need some of the shower pictures- everyone's been asking about it! I think Luke will be well-outfitted for his arrival, coming in November. We are looking forward to meeting our newest nephew!!

Here is Fletcher pictured with his newest BFF, Isabella. He loved playing with her- so much in fact, that he couldn't sleep that night!

Brian and Fletch are playing with this flashcard app- I love technology sometimes.

On top of that, we got to hang out with Papa, Kathy, and Kylie on our way out of town.

And let's not forget Kelley and Foofie driving out to visit/ walk. What a treat- miss these girls.

Thanks again, Chief and Frannie for having us- it is always a pleasure staying with y'all. (and they need special credit for dealing with a wakeful baby Saturday night- he was too wound up from all of the partying!)

I was complaining to Brian that no one ever takes MY picture, so he obliged me. Fletch likes to give a "hug" by pressing his head on you. He "hugs" me before B puts him to bed at night. I think it's cute.

Giant baby

2009-08-20T07:12:00.001-07:00

Apparently Fletcher's teachers are doing a better job at documenting his life, than his very own parents. And we appreciate it! His teacher said today, that he tries to lay down in the "upstairs" of this doll house, and he looks out of the window at her, with one eye. She said she accidentally deleted that particular picture. But I'm glad that she got this one.

PS Happy Birthday Brian yesterday!! Some pics to come of our little celebration.

Thanks, teachers

2009-08-13T11:37:00.001-07:00

So this is Fletcher's last week in his classroom; he moves up to the bigger toddlers next week! His teachers have been sending digital pictures lately, which I LOVE. It cracks me up that he's reading so hard! I owe his reading proficiency to them- this is a very advanced prep-school, obviously.

Seriously though, he has been in such a nurturing envioronment at the JCC- I'm very thankful for these teachers who have taken him in and made him feel loved. And a bonus, taught him a lot of Jewish songs, and some dancing skills! Let's just hope he gets his rhythm from me, and not dad. At this point though, outlook not so good.

4th of July

2009-07-09T19:05:00.000-07:00

Thanks Brian and Gigi for coming to visit and taking my picture!

And thank you Frannie and Chief for sending the new shoes!

And thanks for reading my book, and playing my choo choo song over and over. (and for my monkey and fire truck).

Mostly, thanks for playing. I was sad to see you go! Can't wait to meet my little cousin.

Forrest Spence 5K

2009-07-06T17:18:00.000-07:00

Note; there's a link to the left about a 5K on September 12th, started by some friends that we have here in Memphis. If you're in town, come by and run, or check out the kids' stuff. It is a really fun race and for a great cause, benefitting the families in the PICU at LeBonheur Childrens' hospital in Memphis. Just visiting the site reminds me of the Spence's long journey in 2007 with little Forrest, while I was pregnant with Fletcher. Because of him, it was hard to take any of those first days of Fletch's life, although difficult, for granted! I think the fund is a neat way to remember Forrest and to help families through their hospital stay, as well as encouraging the staff that works there.

Around the house again...

2009-07-01T17:18:00.000-07:00

Since it's been so hot, this has been where we spend a lot of time. At home. So here's some documentation of this oh so exciting time of the year. (actually it's let up a bit this week, so I shouldn't complain.)

Fletch lookin' cool, contemplating bathtime and showing off his guns. I really love his hair.

Officer Brocato, you are quite intimidating with your badge strapped to your head like that, and with the fancy "collar" on your one-piece romper.

HHS girls' party 2009

2009-06-17T11:34:00.000-07:00

So this is the first time in like 5 years that I could make it to my Homewood High School friends' little gathering. I wasn't sure I'd be able to make it, but I sure am glad that I did! We missed those of you who were far away (like I usually am). I'm sure that these girls are more beautiful now, than in high school! Hillary looks like she's one of the von-trapp children, about to burst into song. :) (she's the photographer, though, so she had to slip in at the last minute).
Erin snuck away from a wedding- and we're glad she did!!
I don't know exactly what Makenzie was talking about, but I know it was funny. I like how Kelly always grabs on when she's talking/ laughing. So good to see these girls. It's like we never skipped a beat... Thanks, barb, for having us.

Scenes from a cracker barrel

2009-06-15T11:32:00.000-07:00

We certainly enjoyed breakfast with the Spencers, Papa and Kylie, Uncle John, and Granpapa Bill! I forgot my camera this trip (very quick trip to bham), so I have to rely on B's iphone and other people's pics. Here's what I've got so far.

Ethan's starting football practice next month, so he's got a real football player haircut. I've always liked this cut on him.

Zach is always in motion- can't even catch him with a camera. These kiddos are getting so big. What a pretty little smile, miss Kylie.

Breakfast with Eddie

2009-06-07T18:54:00.001-07:00

As you can see, there is a constant presence with Fletcher at meals.

Fletch gets waffles on the weekends. He'll eat anything with syrup on it. I think he's pretty happy about it.

Easter, the beach, church retreat...

2009-06-04T09:10:00.000-07:00

These are from a month or so ago- at our church retreat. Fletch loves wide open spaces.

And his mama.

hanging out with dad

He looks tired here. I think Easter wore him out. But at least he was lookin' sharp!
My friends at the beach. (the only one of all 5 of us because I was taking all the pics). What a fun weekend of uninterrupted conversation and lots of laughing. If only you knew what was discussed! Well, what happens at the Beach Club...

Also, Fletch said to tell Chief and Frannie thanks for keeping him. I think he misses you a little.

finally

2009-06-03T20:17:00.000-07:00

So I finally got this little SD card drive that I can upload pictures with- the old one broke, and it took us forever to order another one. So hopefully, we'll have a few more pics to keep you updated. Since I'm thinking mostly, mama, you are my main audience- I should just address you directly. So here you go, mom- this is Fletch at our friends' house, with their dog Gus, whom he adores.

This is Fletch just being cute, playing with his daddy's scrubs. I've got to go to BED, but I promise more pics later!

"No no, mama"

2009-04-18T19:52:00.000-07:00

Can you believe the attitude in that little finger? Hillary took this one, and as she put it, he's "giving it back to me" in response to hearing no no. These next couple of years are going to be interesting. It's still cute to me, seeing the attitude. Won't be so cute when I'm seeing it every day, I imagine! Love that chubby little hand, though.

Happy Easter!

2009-04-11T12:39:00.000-07:00

Notice the snowflakes on my PJ's as I don my rabbitt ears. (Brian pointed this out). Fletcher and I are enjoying lots of friends and family here in Birmingham these past few days. We sure do miss Brian, though! Fletch got his first formal haircut, first visit to the firestation, and first trip to the ball-park this week. Also first walk with Owens, visit with Pierce, and not a first, but a fun visit with leigh-leigh, granbetty and granpapa Fletch. Most of it is documented in our Picasa website (way too many Brocato pictures link on right), so go ahead and bore yourself with more fletch pictures than you ever imagined possible.

Everyday life in memhis...

2009-03-11T15:22:00.000-07:00

First shot at a sucker.

Hangin' out at the park

Enjoing a Ritz with the giraffes (and friends)

Welcome Everett Thomas Thorington!

2009-03-05T07:14:00.000-08:00

This post is mosty for my mom, who doesn't have facebook. And for Aunt MaryAnne too!
Can't wait to meet you little new cousin! Congratulations to Jacob and Jen... Get ready to feel like you've been hit by a truck!! (But get ready to have fun too.)

Proud new Papa.

Isn't it so fun to be an aunt/ uncle?

new grandad!

(don't know his granddad name yet. Perhaps Papa?)

Thanks to Kimberly for letting me hijack your facebook pictures!

snow day!

2009-03-01T15:01:00.000-08:00

The night before- it was really coming down.

Getting ready for my walk. We walked by Rhodes, the cafe for some doughnuts, and of course the Foxes' house.

tuckered out from the playing and eating.

We're getting ready for a new workplace and daycare this coming week! We are excited for the new opportunity, and a little sad to live University Hospital and the LEAD program at LeBonheur. Lots of new things starting in March...

Birmingham Birthday Party- Happy Valentine's day, too!

2009-02-14T20:40:00.000-08:00

I know, it's obnoxious to have 2 birthday parties. But HEY, you only turn one once. I guess you can say that about every birthday, but trust me, there won't be two every year. We were just so darn excited about the first birthday, we couldn't help ourselves! Obviously, Fletch is having a good time with his grandparents. Thanks for a lovely time, friends and family- I'm going to try and include a link to our photo-sharing webiste. We're trying out Picasa, so if you want an extensive review in photo, it's all yours! Check over on the right side, list of links). Some good ones of the kids partying. What sweet children my friends and family have, that came to celebrate with us, too. We missed you Cordells!

I think Kylie had her shades on for the whole party.

I love you, Le Le! When are you coming to stay with me?

Thanks for hosting the birthday party Chief and Frannie! And thanks for babysitting for our first trip without Fletch (Chattanooga!). It was nice to have uninterrupted conversation for a couple of days, eat some quiet meals, go to a movie, take a nap, and visit with some old friends (thanks Erin, Brooke, and co!) Couldn't have done it without y'all... We sure did miss that litte guy while we were gone. Some of that interrupted conversation was about the interrupter himself.

I'm One!

2009-01-23T19:20:00.000-08:00

And I had a heck of a time with that cake! More pics to come, but just to give you an idea of a one year old with red icing...

Everyone asks if this year has just flown by. Which I imagine it will feel like this when 2, 3, 4, etc. rolls around. But this year has not flown by. It seems like 10 years ago, that we met this little guy and were bringing him home from the hospital. Maybe because so much has changed in a year- we've become parents; he's become a toddler.

And everyone also reminds us to enjoy this- that it goes so quickly, and I totally agree with that advice. I think that we really have enjoyed every minute of it- there have been very few moments of total frustration and fatigue, when I compare them to the joyful, hilarious, beautiful moments of Fletch's life. (now ask me that question again when toddlerhood rolls around). I don't often get sentimental on the blog (it is mostly pictures, after all), but today I am feeling VERY nostalgic- this time of year is really bringing out my sensitive side!

We are blessed to have you all. And so glad to share Fletch with you.

Mom, dad, we need to have a talk.

2009-01-21T19:18:00.001-08:00

So I was thinking, since I'm one year old, I think it's time I get to eat some cake. You know what I mean- smash it around and all.

Can do, my son. There's an elmo cake with your name on it- all yours tomorrow night. Red icing I believe! (Pictures to follow.)

Happy Birthday my sweet boy!

the post christmas crash

2009-01-06T09:18:00.000-08:00

So, the only pictures I can upload right now, are the ones sent to me via email. And we got a couple of good ones from Gaines family Christmas. Fletch was quite impressed by Kylie's rocking horse. Kylie, on the other hand, was not so enthusiastic about this idea...

Nobody can get a baby to sleep quite like Papa. And often, he gets rocked to sleep himself...

baby boys

2009-01-05T09:13:00.000-08:00

Aren't they sweet- 2008 was the year of the boys!! Welcome baby owens- meet your buddies! We are so glad that you're feeling better...

Merry Christmas!

2008-12-29T09:37:00.000-08:00

I know, this just isn't the same without pictures. But just to update all 10 of you blog readers, Fletcher had a fantastic first Christmas, and we enjoyed spending time with him, and with family and friends in birmingham. He tore into his presents and played really hard. I think his favorite gifts were the push toys, balls, and blocks. This is probably the last christmas that a $1 gift will be exciting! I don't know if this link will work, but a picture to hold you over...
http://www2.snapfish.com/slideshow/AlbumID=265696924/PictureID=6628172986/a=49247983_49193373/t_=49247983

I always feel a little sad that we don't get to see everyone when we visit, but I'm starting to get over that and try to enjoy those that we do see. We got to visit with Thorington's, Brocato's, Rosato's, Gaines, Peerson's, Tedrows/ Holcombes, Haralsons, and Cordells. Can you tell that we were pretty busy? Munger and I just couldn't get our acts together, but it was not for lack of trying.

Here is a shot of the Brocato's all decked out for Christmas!

Thanks for the lovely accomodations Chief and Franny!

We are so thankful for our families, especially this time of year. Thanks for making time for us this week...

technical difficulties

2008-12-15T11:51:00.000-08:00

Apologize for the lack of picture posting- we have been having technical difficulties, and I'm afraid that we are officially computer shopping since the old laptop refuses to turn on. No worries, though. We will be back and posting pictures again (mostly of Fletcher of course- he's the cutest in the family currently), in no time at all!

She's in her early thirties

2008-11-16T16:50:00.000-08:00

Mary turned 30 this week. Here are some pictures. We had a great time at dinner with people we love being with. There were men at the party, we just don't photograph well.

Future doctor?

2008-11-08T19:01:00.001-08:00

Seriously fletch, you're going to make the other kids feel bad. He does like to play with this book.

Fletcher's first sick day. How pitiful. This little head was on my shoulder the whole day.
Trick or Treat! The little red dragon recovered nicely.

This was Fletcher's baptism weekend, too! Thanks to everyone for coming to support us and Fletcher. It was a very special day for us.

It's been a good year and a half.

2008-10-29T13:24:00.000-07:00

That is partly because we've had such great neighbors to make us feel at home in a new city, and with a new baby. Today I drove home for the first time with a home to the right that is empty. We are so sad that our first real neighbors, Katie, Daniel, and Aubrey have moved. It has been a wonderful year of talking on the porch or over the shrubs, swapping babysitting, eating each other's brownies (although I made out on that deal), and watching our babies (and bellies) grow. (and then shrink again). I am so sad not to see little Aubrey sitting on my swing when I get home in the afternoon, really! Thanks for being good friends and neighbors. Although you're not moving to Kansas or anything, it won't be the same without y'all on Sheridan street for sure.

This is our (almost) daily routine of swatting the bugs and catching up on the day's events.
walking when they were so itty bitty.
the swings at the playground down the street! I wish Fletch were old enough to remember how fun it was to have Aubrey as a neighbor. We will miss y'all...

long time no pics.

2008-10-26T12:57:00.000-07:00

There has been a bit of a blog hiatus, due to the fact that the primary blog poster is lazy (that's me). We have some great pictures to share, from a few events- I just have to post them in stages, so here's the first installment. From the beach with Jeff and Eliko! We miss y'all already-Thanks for a wonderful week... (you can click on their link to the right if you're really interested in seeing more pictures, mom).Umm, the pool is like my favorite place in the world.
Anyone recognize this fantastic pizza place in the heart of downtown Auburn? Welcome to the South, Jakers. (the one with the awesome hairdo).
Jake Kai is part man- part fish. He is very serious in all of the pool pics because he is trying to submerge himself completely, against his mother's wishes. Also, I thought you should get some Brocato blog-exposure, Eliko.

PS, Papa turned 60 this week, and chief turned 56 so give them a hard time if you see them around. HB Papa and Chief!

very busy

2008-09-24T20:06:00.000-07:00

This little fella is very busy around the house. Not doing anything in particular- just being cute. Don't have any major events to post, but just to keep you updated on this very quickly growing little boy, here are a few pictures. (I think he looks like my sister in this one.)

really loves the bath more than life itself.
It's hard to capture all of Fletcher's looks. But for some reason, this very close picture gets this expression that we see all-the-time. It means "i'm very serious and excited about playing with whatever I'm looking at right now." We are really enjoying this age; just the sweetest little guy you will ever meet...

First Game day, and 5K

2008-09-08T14:18:00.000-07:00

War Eagle! (a little late). Franny and Chief were in town for Fletcher's first Auburn game day! Too bad he was at home in bed while Brian and I watched at a friend's house. Fletch was proud to wear the ole orange and blue anyway. Thanks for the good babysittin!
And a shout out to my running coach, Chief- I promise I won't swear at you next time...
Fletch's first 5K. Actually, Fletch didn't run this one. He and Foofie (chrissie), cheered me and Andrew along. Andrew was my running buddy, although he and Rob (noteworthy effort, pushing a double stroller), really pulled ahead in the last mile. Brian made it for the after party. Fun to see 3/8 of the white house and company together. Imagine the size of this group with all of the kiddos and husbands now! Can you see baby cordell made the picture? Little Bo Thompson is in the stroller facing mom and dad. Miller and Fletch are becoming fast friends.
I love free stuff. I guess it comes with the registration fee, but it still makes me happy to get tshirts and goody bags.
We love having visitors in Memphis- it makes us feel special. Can't wait for baby foofie cordell to make the trip!

sittin' up in my PJ's...

2008-08-26T19:30:00.001-07:00

still topples over, but getting better at this every day. Fletch is moving up a class at school next week, so he's "visiting" this week. He has already participated in music time, and playground stuff, so this sitting business is going to be very important! I guess monkey bars are next in line. I have actually heard that there is an ice cream day in which the kids are stripped down to their diapers and given an ice cream cone and they get to just go at it- where do I sign up? I guess the adults should probably keep their clothes on, though. Fun with static...

Two things...

2008-08-23T11:06:00.000-07:00

Click here for an interesting article about crime, poverty, and people in Memphis. There's so much to learn about this place. It is interesting to see the perspectives of poor Memphians in this article, and also, the plight of our crime fighters. It is an uphill battle, apparently.

Secondly, this website is a friend of a friend's, who has started a fund to benefit kids, parents, and employees of the ICU (either PICU or NICU, not sure) at LeBonheur, in honor of their baby boy that they lost last year, Forrest. I think I may get off of my couch to run this 5K. (If Brian's off, that is, so that he can watch the baby while Eddie and I run/walk). I don't think I can run that far with Fletch yet. Anyway, it's a good cause, and I was so touched by their story- as his parents went through his hospitalization and death while I was still pregnant with Fletcher, I followed their story closely and was really pulling for little Forrest all along. It's funny how you can feel connected to other moms without really knowing them very well at all!

Around Memphis

2008-08-23T10:17:00.000-07:00

(the zoo) Marco Polo, with an Italian baby face. (Fletch was too interested in the pole that held up the board, to really give this picture one hundred percent.)
(rhodes pool) As Shea put it, these people make life more fun.
I am afraid he's growing out of this beautiful jumper that Klari gave him, so I'm taking some pictures of this sweet boy, just in case.

Happy Birthday Brian!

2008-08-19T15:28:00.000-07:00

Brian's 31, and he's not thrilled about getting older as he keeps working toward his "real job." But I am proud of his patience and dedication in this crazy world of medicine. I actually think we'll be sad when this residency, etc. is over (whenever that may be!). Anyway, babe, happy birthday- You should be proud of all that you've accomplished at this age! (PS, I think we were like 21 in this picture- aren't we cute?)

Funny expressions

2008-08-05T14:59:00.000-07:00

I think I taste a dash of rosemary.
A second helping you say?

applesauce and peas

2008-07-23T19:15:00.000-07:00

Brian's favorite thing to photograph is Fletch eating- we have hundreds and hundreds just like this one. Unfortunately, he takes after his mom's eating style. Messy, that is. Check out the hair- it is very hard to manage. And very handsome at the same time. And really long, according to Franny and Katie. Foofie, please do not get mad at me for keeping the Bumbo up on the counter- Fletch was attended at all times.

This just in.. Emmett Paul Holcombe is here! 7lbs, 1 oz, around 10:30 last night (july 30th)! Emily and family are doing great. Ava Belle is scheduled to meet her little brother this morning. Welcome little friend! Check out their photo site (link on the right). Such a cutie pie.

Guess who....

2008-07-22T06:08:00.000-07:00

is six months old today?! Some pictures to follow later (I'm at work now). Just thought I'd mention it!

Fletch's friends...

2008-07-19T06:41:00.000-07:00

Brian and I are finallly starting to feel settled here in Memphis. A big part of that are the people we've convinced to hang out with us. Seriously, we are already finding ourselves wondering if we'll end up here in the long run because of the really nice folks here. Not to mention, Fletch's girlfriend Gracie is here.And his life coach Claude, who one day will teach him to eat like a big boy, and do brave things like jump off of the big diving board in strawberry shortcake swimmies.

View from the sand

2008-07-03T13:52:00.000-07:00

Had a wonderful week of laying on the beach and eating and visiting with family and friends. It's killing us that we can't see everyone when we come through birmingham. But we appreciate the time that we DO have, and we just assume we'll get to see everyone eventually. Thanks for the last minute visits we're always cooking up.

Brian doing his magic here.

It's always sad when vacation is over- we miss y'all too!

First father's day

2008-06-15T05:38:00.006-07:00

So Brian has been working these CRAZY hours in this last rotation- I think he logged like 104 last week. So that will explain the video. This was yesterday after his 28 hour shift. (He fell asleep in a record 10 seconds). So we're excited to have him "back" today, and we (Fletch and I) are so proud of his hard work.

And I thought I'd share Brian's forte's as a father: 1) powdering the baby(I really can't do it as well) 2)dressing him like a grown-up Brian 3)eating while holding the baby 4)putting Fletch to sleep at night 5)getting the "cheese" out of his chubby neck folds!
We love you- happy father's day! Happy father's day to Papa and Chief and Grandpapa Bill and Grandpapa Fletch too- we miss you!

(sorry about the terrible lighting)

tell us about your day

2008-06-06T05:25:00.000-07:00

Fletch's first day of school- and my first day back to work. Lots to discuss at the dinner table... And I forgot to mention our 7 year anniversary! It was a good day-

Visitors from Bham and St. Louis

2008-05-20T10:36:00.000-07:00

Ava Belle and Emily stopped by on their way back home to St. Louis. Sweet Ava Belle practiced being a big sister with little Fletcher. Emily is the busiest mom-to-be we have ever seen... Must be why she looks so good!
Can't wait to meet little Emmett Holcombe. We always enjoy seeing the holcombes- sure do miss that Paul, though!

Papa came last week(there are more pictures, but they are stored in Papa's camera, and he apparently can't figure out a good way to send them to me ). In the mean time, note in this picture that the baby shirt isn't on yet. You see, it has to go BEFORE the pants when you're snapping things. That's why it took quite awhile to get dressed this day. Anyway, we had a great time eating out and going to the zoo too (very close to our house). The monkeys practically kissed us, they were so close. Shame we don't have those pictures yet.

Gina, Frankie, and Chief

2008-05-16T06:31:00.000-07:00

Thanks for coming to visit last week, and for a great day at the zoo. Always nice to have some company during the day.
Frankie, thanks for riding all the way up to Memphis to see the zoo with us!

I love Gigi!

handsome little fella.

2008-05-05T14:44:00.000-07:00

(deciding to actually use the blog to share some thoughts here). One of the best things about Fletcher, is how he makes other people happy- Seriously, I am like a celebrity at the grocery store (without all of the personal questions, Kelley), and when we go out to eat, too. People just come up to us and start talking, and Fletcher will inevitably flash one of those famous grins, and I swear it makes people laugh, and carry on conversations with him. One lady last week had a whole conversation, in which she told me afterwards, that Fletcher told her to enroll in a beauty pageant. A total stranger! Anyway, I really love for him to spend time with our friends and families- it is a total unexpected bonus of parenthood to see him so loved and appreciated by you-
I think he makes Eddie happy too. He guards him while he eats and sleeps sometimes. Fletch is just waking up here.

singin' on the couch-

2008-04-28T10:22:00.000-07:00

starting to find his voice-

wearing little man clothes-We sure are going to miss this age when it's gone- he's so sweet.

Burke and the Haralsons-

2008-04-24T14:49:00.000-07:00

So Todd, Burke, and Karen made it to Memphis this past weekend. It was like the good ole days hanging around the house, minus the Auburn football and Rotel (maybe next time). This is the morning after the boys ate a big dinner and drove around memphis in a 1982 Lincoln limousine with rims.

Me and Karen after an evening of eating girly food and watching "you've got mail". I am sporting my favorite T-shirt (if you know me, you know my feelings about Kanakuk).

Little Fletch was worn out after all of the socializing. He and Karen really hit it off- lots of big smiles for the pretty girls...So much fun- we miss you guys a lot!

Naked baby

2008-04-17T18:43:00.000-07:00

Fletcher is showing off how strong he is. He's twelve weeks now, and starting to laugh. But the worst part is that no one has witnessed it except me (mom). Oh well, I guess it will be our little thing for now. Looking forward to seeing Karen, Todd, and Burke this weekend! Happy Anniversary Brian and Gina!

Spring is here!

2008-04-07T08:38:00.001-07:00

My view from the front porch- I'm excited that the azaleas have finally bloomed. Brian wants to dig them out because they're so large, but I will be sad when they're gone. I know they're only pink one time a year, but they're so nice for this week or two! He's probably right that we need something smaller, so here are a few pictures in memory of the 40-50 year old azalea bushes.

Looking out from the front porch swing-
Thanks Chief and Franny, for taking the pictures (and for mom and dad's first night out).

These days, we love to go out to eat. Brice got Fletch to sleep while Katie, Brian, and I were eating Thai food. It saved us from getting the evil eye from the table next door. Seriously, he whined for like 30 seconds, and people get upset about that?

busy baby

2008-04-02T13:18:00.000-07:00

Fletch trying to get his thumb- it cracks us up how he stretches out his arms and slowly brings in the hand, like he's aiming...

10 weeks old!

2008-04-02T07:00:00.000-07:00

So I'm two and a half months old now, and I'm very busy with my arms and legs. Most of the time I am trying to suck my thumb, and am successful about 10% of the time. Hopefully that percentage will increase as I get older. (I'm trying to post a video, but it's just not working right now).This is my crazy hair. I've had it for about 3 days, since the last bath where I must have fallen asleep on a wet 'do'.

2008-03-26T07:14:00.000-07:00

Easter weekend in Birmingham- My first road trip. We are thankful for our family and friends, and for getting to spend time with everyone on this weekend to celebrate the resurrection! We got to spend time with Papa, Kathy, Leslie and Kylie. Also saw Julie, Ethan, and Zachary and went walking with Chrissie, Kelley, Rebekah, (don't forget Frances, Mary Helen, Jack, Libby, and Noble)- we were called a baby parade by some onlookers. And had a quick trip to Gran-betty's for cookies and ice cream, where we met Charlie and Lee Lee. We went to church on Easter with Chief and Franny where we were introduced to Aunt Amanda and Uncle Frank and co. We met ma-maw on Easter, and saw Angie, Mark, and more cousins. Whew- we were tired when we got back to Memphis. Thanks to everyone for putting us up and helping out (and feeding us!)- maybe next time we can bring Brian! A special thanks to Frances for driving with me and helping with Eddie and Fletch...

The Fletchers finally meet- Granpapa is getting a chance to hear me squawk.

Chief and Papa getting to spend some time...

I love my cousins Frankie and Isabella, even though they have me in the pink chair.

Breakfast at Demetri's/Couch time at Gran-betty's/Smiling for Mama Jo.

I met Gran-papa Bill and Uncle John at a Gaines family Saturday morning breakfast- we sure did miss Gran-Dempie-

Can't wait to meet more friends and family!

a sad day...

2008-03-18T11:27:00.001-07:00

Today began a long, fear-filled relationship with the pediatrician. Three nasty shots (the third is on his left leg). A big huge scream and it was over. I was Mr. personality flirting with the nurses and laughing it up with Dr. Chris, until the shots came. Then the fun and games were over.

We recovered fine, though, as you can see (pictured a couple of hours later). It was probably worse for mom than the little guy.

2008-03-14T06:09:00.001-07:00

Not a great quality picture- but this is me in the morning. Lots of talking and smiling- so sweet... I really don't think the video does it justice. Also, it is amazing how terrible your own voice sounds on video. I also think it is funny that he is screaming as I write this post about how sweet he is in the morning.

This shirt reminds me of Frankie. Probably because we got it from him- Thanks!

2008-03-13T12:33:00.000-07:00

This is our neighbor, Aubrey. Mom, Katie, and Aubrey have become great walking buddies since the weather is so nice. Aubrey gets to steer her stroller- Fletch is jealous of this feature.

Gina and Brian Harris come to visit!

2008-03-08T16:00:00.001-08:00

This is my absolute favorite jacket. Don't know if you can see the ears on his hood.

check out the dimples. sort of like mom's, right?

Sometimes I'm very serious.

Not so crazy about the snow. maybe it was too bright. Maybe he didn't like the hair on Gina's snowman-

Our first big snow in Memphis- so glad the Harris's were here with us!

2008-03-06T09:28:00.001-08:00

Per grandparents' request, some larger pics, better for printing! This is me first thing in the morning- I love the changing table...

being coy... Today I visited my friends at Methodist Univ. Hospital and I smiled for them. It was good to see everybody!

new stroller and hat= mom getting out more.

Around the house...

2008-03-03T16:23:00.000-08:00

Fletcher will be 6 weeks old tomorrow! We are getting into a groove here at the house, and mom and baby both are crying much less. Still don't quite have the sleeping thing down- I guess we'll just have to be patient. We lost the camera battery charger for the first church outing and our first ride in the jogging stroller. Oh well- maybe next time... But we did find it yesterday, so here you go.

"I like to sit on the couch as well, Eddie."

Brian sporting cool dad gear. (home early from work for once!)

The shirt says it all-

Papa, Kathy, and Les's visit

2008-02-29T10:55:00.000-08:00

This was a couple of weeks back, but I like these pics: The one asleep is his first trip out in public, to breakfast. In the words of Emily, we told ourselves, "It's a baby, not a bomb."

Eddie always has to be in on the action.

Smiling

2008-02-26T16:50:00.000-08:00

So Fletcher is beginning to grace us with some big toothless grins. Inside, though, he is sad that Franny left today- he misses her already. We have really appreciated your help over the past few days!

2008-02-20T15:12:00.001-08:00

picture compliments of Gigi- I have realized that there are no pictures of mom, really, so here you go. Brian looks very wise, like he has reading glasses on. We don't look as tired as we actually are.

2008-02-16T15:53:00.001-08:00

Emily and Chrissie visiting - this is Ava Belle

After a bath - or as Emily puts it - a bottom soak.

Kathy and Leslie, Eddie looks like he's ready for a meal

Emily and Grace, and their daughters, AB and Miller

Fletch meets Chrissie for the first time. He knows he's in good hands with the pediatrician. Eddie's thought at this moment - "get out of my chair people"

family comes to visit

2008-02-03T15:52:00.000-08:00

I love Franny and Chief!

The Brocato bunch is in town for a bit...

We miss you Lee Lee!

Papa had a cold.

a very curious greyhound.

Julie, Josh, Ethan, and Zachary came and ran around the yard. Unfortunately, Fletch slept most of the time. We think he had a good time with his cousins, though.

Grace and Miller have been by a few times- Fletcher said that he can't wait to go swimming at the Thompsons this summer. We'll have Chik-Fil-A milkshakes- it will be great.

2008-02-03T15:33:00.001-08:00

2008-02-03T12:43:00.000-08:00

baby yawn.

Fletcher Gaines Brocato

2008-01-25T16:36:00.001-08:00

So I have been requested to find another way other than snapfish to share some pictures. Here are some of our sweet little man- almost two weeks old! I guess there are a few things you do when you have kids, that you didn't do before: one of them is to send out Christmas cards- another is to create a blog. So here are some shots of the craziest, sweetest, days as a family so far...

Meet Fletcher Gaines Brocato, born January 22nd, at 6 lbs, 11 oz.

Everyone says that I look like Dad in this one.

Hello mom! My first minutes in the real world. This already seems like 10 years ago.

Meeting Dad...

We are not concerned about his lung capacity.

Hel- LO nurse! Already Mr. Personality.

More pictures to come- I have gotten to meet Papa, Lee Lee, Chief, Franny, and Gigi, so we'll try to post some of family soon... Looking forward to this weekend with Kathy, Leslie and Papa, followed by the one and only Ava Belle Holcombe, with mom Emily, and the Foofie Cordells soon! We really appreciate the help from our visitors- don't know how we could do it without you. The meals and visitors make life a lot easier right now- thanks so much to everyone- the support is overwhelming, and so very needed. The craziness can't be put into words... But neither can the thankfulness that we have for little Fletcher Gaines Brocato.